The Confucian cultural circle is of rich family values. The Singaporeled Confucian cultural countries and areas insist on “family support first and social security later”. They integrate the social security policy with family value, and use the incentive policies including tax cut, domestic transfer payment and prior housing to maintain the family sanity and stability and to protect the family support functions for lighten the countrys burden of social security. The familyoriented social security system deserves our study. We can introduce the family concept into our endowment insurance and medical insurance to maintain the security function of family. The common development of family support and social security can help us to get through the flood tide of aging population at low cost.